alhamdulillah...berkat rezeki..berkat iman...islam..kesihatan..hari ini ana diberi kesempatan olehNya untuk terus bernafas di muka bumiNya yang indah ini...SyukRan ya ALLAH...
syukur pada Allah juGa...alhamdulillah ana dilahirkan dalam sebuah keluarga yang harmoni...yang paling utama ana dilahirkan di dalam sebuah keluarga islam..itulah nikmat yang tdk terhingga...mempunyai ibu bapa yang mentarbiah diriku ke jalanMu sejak kecil lagi...walaupun mereka tidak menghantar ana 5 beradik ke sekolah agama..namun alhamdulillah hasil tarbiah mereka...kami membesar dlm keadaan yg baik...dan walaupun sudah tinggal berjauhan..tarbiah2 tersebut masih diamalkan...terima kasih MAMA n ABAH...atas didikan mu selama ini...teruskanlah mendidik anak-anakmu ini..walaupun kami jauh dar sisi mu....
ana mula berjauhan dari keluarga semasa umur 18thn...(skang da 23thn =])..masa itu dapat twrn melanjutkan pelajaran di UiTM, Jengka...in Diploma Sc.Komputer...homesick mula2 masuk...dmam panas..bru smnggu..Ma n Abah kna dtg smule (mengada2 jgk ea...tp bkn wat2...hehhee)..pas mreka da dtg..ok skit dah...tp 3thn kt unvrct...setiap kali mula sem bru (pas cuti lma kt umah)...blik je asrma...msti dmam...why ea?...hurm..jenuh gak ana mikirknny...homesick terlebih2..kna duk ngn ma abah gak bru shat...(mmg ngada2..hehehe)...nk kta ank mnja...adk da 3org kt bwh la..xtau la..(sja wt2 mnja kut...hehehe)...
duduk jauh dari keluarga...memulakn khdupan bru...d tmpt bru...dlm suasana bru...cbran hdup di luar..mmg besar...sbb itu kta perlu duduk dalm jemaah...mksud ana..kta kna cri n hdup dlm kelompok shbt2..yg akan saling berpesan2 pda kbnrn...saling2 ingt mengingti pda kebaikan..pendek kta..yg dpt sahbt yg dpt mntrbiah dri kta...dan kta mntrbiah mereka...jika tdak..pasti kta akan hnyut..dgn cbrn2 dan hburan2 ygn terlampau2 dewasa ini...oleh itu...sama2 la kita cari ukhuwwah yang seperti ini..jika sudah jumpa...peliharalah ukhuwah itu...sehingga ke akhir hayat kta..
" Ya ALLAH, sahabatku buah hatiku, mesra kami penawar duka, rindu kami menambah ceria, rajuk kami menambah ceria..Ya ALLAH, silaturahim kami ukhuwwah fillah, permusuhan kami nauzubillah, berpisah mati, insyaAllah, pengikat hati kami doa rabitah.."
SalaM aLayk...todAy i've GivEn a LitTle Bit "RaJIN" to ShaRe sOmetHing nGan AntUm...soMetHinG tHat i Got fRom TmN syuRga gRoupS...beFore i shaRe the joKes..LetS we VieW foR a While thE coNditIons of JokiNg in isLam..
Joking is a break, a rest from ongoing seriousness and striving; it is a little relaxation for the soul. ‘Umar ibn ‘Abd al-‘Azeez (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: “Fear joking, for it is folly and generates grudges.”
Imam al-Nawawi (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: “The kind of joking which is forbidden is that which is excessive and persistent, for it leads to too much laughter and hardening of the heart, it distracts from remembrance of Allaah, and it often leads to hurt feelings, generates hatred and causes people to lose respect and dignity. But whoever is safe from such dangers, then that which the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) used to do is permissible for him.”
Sa’d ibn Abi Waqqaas said: “Set a limit to your jokes, for going to extremes makes you lose respect and incites the foolish against you.”
The amount of joking should be like the amount of salt in one’s food.
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Do not laugh too much, for laughing too much deadens the heart.” (Saheeh al-Jaami’, 7312)
‘Umar ibn al-Khattaab (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: “Whoever laughs too much or jokes too much loses respect, and whoever persists in doing something will be known for it.”
So beware of joking, for it “causes a person to lose face after he was thought of as respectable, and it brings him humiliation after esteem.”
A man said to Sufyaan ibn ‘Uyaynah (may Allaah be pleased with him), “Joking is not right, it is to be denounced.” He replied, “Rather it is Sunnah, but only for those who know how to do it and do it at the appropriate time.”
Nowadays, although the ummah needs to increase the love between its individual members and to relieve itself of boredom, it has gone too far with regard to relaxation, laughter and jokes. This has become a habit which fills their gatherings and wastes their time, so their lives are wasted and their newspapers are filled with jokes and trivia.
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “If you knew what I know, you would laugh little and weep much.” In Fath al-Baari it says: “What is meant by knowledge here has to do with the might of Allaah and His vengeance upon those who disobey Him, and the terrors that occur at death, in the grave and on the Day of Resurrection).
Muslim men and women have to be inclined to choose righteous and serious friends in their lives, who will help them to make good use of their time and strive for the sake of Allaah with seriousness and steadfastness, good and righteous people whose example they can follow. Bilaal ibn Sa’d said: “I saw them [the Sahaabah] jokingly pretending to fight over some goods, and laughing with one another, but when night came they were like monks.”
Ibn ‘Umar (may Allaah be pleased with him) was asked, “Did the Companions of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) laugh?” He said, “Yes, and the faith in their hearts was like mountains.”
So you have to follow the example of such people, who were knights by day and monks (i.e., devoted worshippers) by night.
May Allaah keep us, you and our parents safe on the Day of the Greatest Terror, those to whom the call will go out on that great Day:
“Enter Paradise, no fear shall be on you, nor shall you grieve”
[al-A’raaf 7:49 – interpretation of the meaning]to be continued........
Salam alayk...Lama rasanYa ana tak Pos enTri daLam bLog ni...naK menuLiS nI pn KenA tungGu mood gAk.. (~_~)...
aLhamDuliLLah...seJak akHir2 Nie rsA serOnoK saNgat...daH dApt JoiN teAm uSraH baLik (moGa2 & doa2 DapT uPgrAde seTtiNg iMan n AmaL biLa da joIn teAm tarBiyaH...aminnnnnn...)..syUkraN "Mak cIk ZaI"...sudI bawAk AmaL joIn uSrAh maK cIk...diDikLah anK mu Ini...untUk jadI waNita SoLehah...=]
ptG seMaLam (26 JuLai 2009)..di TasIk titiwAngsa...gaThering di Sana...berSaMa maKcik2, pkck2,saHabt2 n Adik2 kaRisMa UKMKL...dAh Lma x beR ta'ruf raMai2 cm tuE...soNok..dPt jmPe shBat2 yNg akAn saLing IngAt menGingaTi dan pEsan BerpeSan...adik-adik..tegur2laH akaK mu Ini...teRasa kerdiLnya diRI inI denGan antum SemuA...
SeMaLam AntAra akTivIti yAng diLakuKan...ta'ruf MeLaLui GamE CindiReLLa...peNgalAmaN BaRu..CinderElLa yaNg aNa daPat..."KAk AnFaL"..niCe tO kNow YoU siS..cAntIK n SoLeHaH orAngnYa... =)....daN tuAn pUteRi YaNg daPaT kasUt anA...adIk "NOr HiDayAh"..peLajAr taHun AkhiR nutRitiouS(if AkAk saLah sorry ye Dik..)....haBis seSi tA'ruF...takLimAt sedIkit daRi paKciK zaInaL dan AmAR KAriSma UKMKL..pengenal karisma kepada adik-adik baru...weLcoMe to KarisMa...acaRa berAkhir dekat2 nak maGhrib...mogA juMpe LagI di LaIn wAktu...Luv ThiS ukHuwWah..
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